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posted on 07 Nov 2011 17:27 by meredybright

 

วันนี้ก็อ่านบทความภาษาอังกฤษ เรื่องใหม่เพิ่มอีก 1 เรื่อง

 

เรื่องนี้เป็นเรื่องเกี่ยวกับการรับรู้ตัวเองมั้ง...การลองฟังเสียงจากข้างในตัวเรา ว่ากำลังคิดอะไร

 

อารมณ์ทั้งหลาย ที่เกิดขึ้นกับเรา ความท้อแท้ ความเหนื่อยหน่าย ความมั่นใจ ความกังวล ความเสียใจ ความสุข เป็นต้น ถือเป็นข้อความที่เราไม่ควรมองข้าม ควรจะรับฟังและพิจารณาให้ดี เพราะตัวเราเองนั้นเปรียมเหมือนเครื่องชี้วัดตัวเองที่น่าเชื่อถือมากที่สุดเลย เพราะความรู้สึกที่เกิดขึ้นทุกอย่างในตัวเราไม่เคยโกหก และที่จริงเราก็คงไม่สามารถหลีกเลี่ยงความรู้สึกเหล่านี้ไ้ด้อยู่ดี ดังว่านี้คือกระจกที่สะท้อนตัวเรานั้นเอง

 

ดังนั้นเราต้องไม่กลัวที่จะมองเข้าไปในกระจกและพิจารณาตัวเองให้ดี เพราะภาพที่เห็นทุกอย่างก็คือตัวเราเอง

 

สำหรับชีวิตที่ต้องเจอเรื่องร้าย เค้าใช้เรียกเหตุการณ์เหล่านั้นว่า  " Scared Wound " 

 

บาดแผลที่ว่าใ้ช้แทนเหตุการณ์ต่างๆ ที่เกิดขึ้นในชีวิต แน่นอนมันคงเป็นเรื่องที่ใครๆ ก็หลีกเลี่ยงไม่ได้ ทุกคนต้องเจอ เหตุการณ์แย่ๆ ของแต่ละคน คงจะมีหลากหลายเหตุผล หลากหลายรูปแบบแตกต่างกันไป และเมื่อเหตุการณ์ที่เราไม่พึงประสงค์เกิดขึ้น ก็ส่งผลกระทบต่อชีวิตของเราในหลายๆ ด้าน อย่างเช่น การใช้ชีวิต การตัดสินใจ ความเชื่อ 

 

ประสบการณ์ที่เกิดขึ้นอาจจะไม่น่าสนุก หรือเป็นเรื่องที่แย่มากๆ แต่ว่ามันก็มีคุณค่า 

 

ความเคยชิน คงจะเป็นศัตรูตัวหนึ่งที่สำคัญเลยมั้ง เพราะทุกคนไม่ชอบการเปลี่ยนแปลง ทุกคนอย่างให้ีชีวิตเป็นไปในทางที่ตัวเองต้องการ แต่พอเกิดการเคลื่อนไหวจากที่ไหนก็ไม่รู้ มาทำให้ชีวิตที่แสนจะปกติเปลี่ยนไป กลายเป็น นิ่งๆ ซึมเศร้า ถ้าเราเข้าใจคุณค่าของมันดี เราก็ควรจะยอมรับมัน เพราะมันจะทำให้เราตาสว่างได้สักที

 

แผลจากเหตุการณ์แย่ๆ อาจจะถูกฝังลึกไม่มีวันลืม แต่คนหลายคน คงต้องพบเจอกับเรื่องแย่ๆ ก่อนจึงจะประสบความสำเร็จ เพราะมันทำให้เรามองเห็นตัวเองในมุมใหม่ มุมที่เราไม่เคยเห็น ทำให้รู้จักตัวเองมากขึ้น โตมากขึ้น ทุกอย่างที่เกิดขึ้นก็เพื่อให้ีชีวิตเรารู้จักเปลี่ยนแปลงมองอะไรในมุมที่แปลกออกไป

 

"These crises are sacred and necessary and a valuable part of the journey of being a human being. "

 

และเราก็ไม่ควรคิดว่าทำไม เรื่องนี้ถึงต้องเกิดกับเรา...แต่เราต้องคิดว่าทำไมเราถึงเป็นแบบนี้ตังหาก

 

มีคนๆ หนึ่งหลังจากแพทย์แจ้งว่าป่วยเป็นมะเร็ง เธอไม่ได้ถามว่าทำไมเธอเป็นมะเร็ง แต่เธอพูดว่าฉันจะอยู่กับมันยังไง เราเองก็ควรจะคิดแบบนี้นะ

edit @ 7 Nov 2011 21:45:59 by MeredyBright

edit @ 8 Nov 2011 00:15:35 by MeredyBright

edit @ 8 Nov 2011 00:16:32 by MeredyBright

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I'm not sure what you have against "The Five". I mean, four of the five panel members are on the right. The only creep is Bob Beckel. I admit, his creepiness makes the show a bit harder to handle. But Greg Gutfeld makes up for it! I LOVE him!! Beckel will probably have a stroke or a heart attack on the show one day and they can just shove him off the stage and continue on.,

#100 By OgCcqPDNYGEpPNZ (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-31 16:54

I understand. That is why I made the point about the state caucus to come up with acceptable Presidential candidates. My fear is we have too many conservatives that may split our vote and let a Romney, Christie get in.,

#99 By BAUIBOCcwrkbT (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-31 14:49

In doing this blog and thinking about this stuff, have you ever had any ideas for what kinds of tools (software, that is) that people could use to do things like share creative ideas in groups, create customer community, etc. etc.?,

#98 By plzpxKKAINJzieTJaal (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-12 05:53

I'm not sure what you have against "The Five". I mean, four of the five panel members are on the right. The only creep is Bob Beckel. I admit, his creepiness makes the show a bit harder to handle. But Greg Gutfeld makes up for it! I LOVE him!! Beckel will probably have a stroke or a heart attack on the show one day and they can just shove him off the stage and continue on.,

#97 By AiiVgDdAer (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-12 04:51

Only reason I voted for him was SARAH. I wasn't even going to vote until he picked her. I had voted in every election since the late 1960?s.,

#96 By wvvnnzsmmsCa (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-12 03:50

I always wondered if the Manchurian Candidate � McLame � would make an appearance. I think he is a victim of Stockholm Syndrome, too.,

#95 By SrNmbuWSywMz (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-12 02:48

It would also make it a lot harder for bullying to take place, since anyone stupid enough to try it would be taking on a potentially even bigger community, as well as whoever happened to be hosting you. (Anyone who did host would have your back 100% and be able to manage comment moderation and such so you'd never even have to see the garbage.),

#94 By CrGKgXyUBZpwuOea (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-11 21:35

Only reason I voted for him was SARAH. I wasn't even going to vote until he picked her. I had voted in every election since the late 1960?s.,

#93 By lleDYIkYbiMADYel (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-11 19:29

O.K. I give up. What is your beef with Gutfeld? I think he is hilarious! He is not a serious contributor, but is there for laughs. I like him.,

#92 By jIikzsavEZ (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-11 10:07

I understand. That is why I made the point about the state caucus to come up with acceptable Presidential candidates. My fear is we have too many conservatives that may split our vote and let a Romney, Christie get in.,

#91 By mqMYqXWQ (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-11 05:52

I'm not sure what you have against "The Five". I mean, four of the five panel members are on the right. The only creep is Bob Beckel. I admit, his creepiness makes the show a bit harder to handle. But Greg Gutfeld makes up for it! I LOVE him!! Beckel will probably have a stroke or a heart attack on the show one day and they can just shove him off the stage and continue on.,

#90 By gcdRzOYEbcRpwYNzRg (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-11 02:49

O.K. I give up. What is your beef with Gutfeld? I think he is hilarious! He is not a serious contributor, but is there for laughs. I like him.,

#89 By EjFKHWDxNXQitIQ (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 23:39

I'm not sure what you have against "The Five". I mean, four of the five panel members are on the right. The only creep is Bob Beckel. I admit, his creepiness makes the show a bit harder to handle. But Greg Gutfeld makes up for it! I LOVE him!! Beckel will probably have a stroke or a heart attack on the show one day and they can just shove him off the stage and continue on.,

#88 By BvsQCxSv (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 20:25

Only reason I voted for him was SARAH. I wasn't even going to vote until he picked her. I had voted in every election since the late 1960?s.,

#87 By gAKoqsWDEFRMaY (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 19:22

It's entirely possible that I copied that individual number across incorrectly (and that the index was correct), but when I did the query just then it returned a Technorati Rank of 37, so as you say there would be no change in the rank, but an improvement in your index.,

#86 By TzDELUsnkqMLHqEG (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 13:08

It'd be kinda like the group blog idea, but with more of a "Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego?" vibe. And who didn't love playing that? :),

#85 By fFahBTzIY (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 07:57

It'd be kinda like the group blog idea, but with more of a "Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego?" vibe. And who didn't love playing that? :),

#84 By SboaBZCyFlnlg (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 06:54

What is really infuriating is his denial that he was attacking the Tea Party. He was "only reading a WSJ article" on the floor of the Senate. Hannity could have done a better job of hammering on THAT giant piece of brazen hypocrisy.,

#83 By RTWRyMhfWIhyudLMtU (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-10 02:48

I'm not sure what you have against "The Five". I mean, four of the five panel members are on the right. The only creep is Bob Beckel. I admit, his creepiness makes the show a bit harder to handle. But Greg Gutfeld makes up for it! I LOVE him!! Beckel will probably have a stroke or a heart attack on the show one day and they can just shove him off the stage and continue on.,

#82 By dcjpCNWloYGOdbAa (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 22:38

In doing this blog and thinking about this stuff, have you ever had any ideas for what kinds of tools (software, that is) that people could use to do things like share creative ideas in groups, create customer community, etc. etc.?,

#81 By gFEjfhcBqLYXBCWL (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 18:31

What is really infuriating is his denial that he was attacking the Tea Party. He was "only reading a WSJ article" on the floor of the Senate. Hannity could have done a better job of hammering on THAT giant piece of brazen hypocrisy.,

#80 By KkMiQUjyXBB (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 16:30

Take me for example. I could support Bachman, Cain, Palin, or Santorum. in no particular order. Others would choose fewer plus Paul.,

#79 By wFwPpBujjNCXAOl (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 13:23

It would also make it a lot harder for bullying to take place, since anyone stupid enough to try it would be taking on a potentially even bigger community, as well as whoever happened to be hosting you. (Anyone who did host would have your back 100% and be able to manage comment moderation and such so you'd never even have to see the garbage.),

#78 By nYDFpCJYexMq (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 07:12

Take me for example. I could support Bachman, Cain, Palin, or Santorum. in no particular order. Others would choose fewer plus Paul.,

#77 By SlODTZfrkftHi (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 04:10

Take me for example. I could support Bachman, Cain, Palin, or Santorum. in no particular order. Others would choose fewer plus Paul.,

#76 By BDEHsrvyKWiPtzya (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 03:10

It's entirely possible that I copied that individual number across incorrectly (and that the index was correct), but when I did the query just then it returned a Technorati Rank of 37, so as you say there would be no change in the rank, but an improvement in your index.,

#75 By PGBvddhQqxcIIqvuG (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 01:07

O.K. I give up. What is your beef with Gutfeld? I think he is hilarious! He is not a serious contributor, but is there for laughs. I like him.,

#74 By grKYVNHHUr (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-09 00:05

I'm not sure what you have against "The Five". I mean, four of the five panel members are on the right. The only creep is Bob Beckel. I admit, his creepiness makes the show a bit harder to handle. But Greg Gutfeld makes up for it! I LOVE him!! Beckel will probably have a stroke or a heart attack on the show one day and they can just shove him off the stage and continue on.,

#73 By IbRhFimqpCzhRHTy (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-08 20:56

What is really infuriating is his denial that he was attacking the Tea Party. He was "only reading a WSJ article" on the floor of the Senate. Hannity could have done a better job of hammering on THAT giant piece of brazen hypocrisy.,

#72 By dKZJhJavxMAzmL (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-08 08:29

I always wondered if the Manchurian Candidate � McLame � would make an appearance. I think he is a victim of Stockholm Syndrome, too.,

#71 By RrqIQaqyfhVjATEOpe (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-08 01:20

I understand. That is why I made the point about the state caucus to come up with acceptable Presidential candidates. My fear is we have too many conservatives that may split our vote and let a Romney, Christie get in.,

#70 By ilnsAzBkKvPDi (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 23:14

Only reason I voted for him was SARAH. I wasn't even going to vote until he picked her. I had voted in every election since the late 1960?s.,

#69 By sDEIcTOXbEdl (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 20:07

I always wondered if the Manchurian Candidate � McLame � would make an appearance. I think he is a victim of Stockholm Syndrome, too.,

#68 By BndNrMmtCCIBOwwThxp (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 16:01

In doing this blog and thinking about this stuff, have you ever had any ideas for what kinds of tools (software, that is) that people could use to do things like share creative ideas in groups, create customer community, etc. etc.?,

#67 By JYiPzRMRTKPzpKvU (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 13:56

It's entirely possible that I copied that individual number across incorrectly (and that the index was correct), but when I did the query just then it returned a Technorati Rank of 37, so as you say there would be no change in the rank, but an improvement in your index.,

#66 By LuYkBOaDjlnMYvs (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 12:54

I understand. That is why I made the point about the state caucus to come up with acceptable Presidential candidates. My fear is we have too many conservatives that may split our vote and let a Romney, Christie get in.,

#65 By ygEpSuepQvKpG (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 10:51

It'd be kinda like the group blog idea, but with more of a "Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego?" vibe. And who didn't love playing that? :),

#64 By UhKXAxgPhUQX (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 08:45

In doing this blog and thinking about this stuff, have you ever had any ideas for what kinds of tools (software, that is) that people could use to do things like share creative ideas in groups, create customer community, etc. etc.?,

#63 By HwnjBfsCprhd (103.7.57.18|91.232.96.5) on 2012-08-07 04:41